They tell you it is FREE to sign up, to create your account, but do not emphasize that to contact someone and participate, you must pay.
This leads to hundreds of sign ups every season such as when people get new computers for Christmas, summertime when they want to do activities, and when the weather gets cold and they don’t want to go to events just to meet someone.
This looks good because you see all these people, but when you try to contact them you get no response because they don’t pay for their membership.
There were allegations at one time about bots or trickery used to get people to sign up and pay.
This meant you might get a fake “contact” from a fake person or the service would tell you there was a message for you, but you have to pay to get the message.
This trickery meant you spent money for absolutely nothing. They may pay for an account then contact everyone they can, hoping one or two people take the bait and send them money.
If you have doubts or want to be sure, ask me about it.
I am not an attorney and cannot take responsibility for your subsequent actions based on my statements, but maybe I can point you to someone that can help.
For instance, there used to be three sites that shared one database.
I have included some links below to dating sites you might consider, with information, but for right now, I want to cover some details with you about PAID sites.
ABOUT DATING SITES ♦ HOW TO USE CENTRAL COAST SINGLES ♦ LINKS AND DESCRIPTIONS OF DATING SITES ♦ OTHER IDEAS FOR SINGLES Many Dating sites use the same database.
You can also have a person you arrange to call at a specific time and set your alarm.
Do not leave the arranged location until you assess the person you are meeting and make your call. In the meantime, join in on events and sign up for our Central Coast Singles Newsletter.